Crying over books
Sutherland Shire Libraries
Monday, November 12, 2012
2012 readers advisory
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books
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NYR Cry theme
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reading
Have you ever found yourself nearly crying because you have finished a book (or the last of a series of books)? Do you find yourself remembering scenes and characters that have captured your heart and become quite real in your imagination? Have you found yourself reading something where you dread getting to the last few pages of the book, because you just don’t want the story to end? You may even feel unable to move on to read another book as you need to take some time to let go of your last read.
When a book is well written, it is as if the author has the power to weave a spell over you, enticing you further and further into a book, causing you to become emotionally invested with the story and characters. Before you know it, the story ends, and you find yourself remembering scenes, characters and quotes from the book, feeling sad and bereft that you can no longer pick up this book and read more. I guess this is one reason why series of books and fan fiction are so popular.
Have you ever found yourself fighting back tears, maybe even crying, as you mourn the death of a fictional character? Do you find yourself imaging alternative scenarios where the character survives? Although causing the demise of particular characters is certainly an effective (and often convenient) ploy used by authors to draw the reader in, it can be absolutely heart wrenching and so sad!
How easy for people to say it’s just a book, or it’s just a fictional character, they’re not real! They just don’t understand. Often these characters have become like friends, whom you can relate to, think and care about; albeit that they are friends that solely inhabit the pages of a book.
It is a compliment to the authors that they have the ability to evoke such emotion with stories and characters created from their imagination, even if they do make us cry. It is a comfort that at least we are able to re-read these stories, time and again, and for me, this is one of the reasons I love reading.
So next time you decide it’s time to re-visit these books, make sure you don’t forget your tissues!
Monique